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Location:

Mesa,AZ,

Member Since:

Apr 04, 2007

Gender:

Female

Goal Type:

Marathon Finish

Running Accomplishments:

Prs:

1 mile:  6:31

5K:  23:37

Half Marathon: 2:04

My first post-high school 5K, in which I thought I was going to die

The first time I won my age division.  Yippee!

My first half marathon, in which I attack Sasha

The time I beat my high school PR for the 5K (as a 31 year-old mommy of 3!)

My first 5K barefooted

 

Short-Term Running Goals:

I'm just getting back into running after a long break to have my last child.  I would like to race some 10Ks, a half, and a marathon in the next 2 years.

Long-Term Running Goals:

Be the oldest woman to complete a marathon.  Yea!  But hopefully I will also complete some BEFORE I geezer up, like, before I'm 40 for sure.  I think it would be fun to dress up really strange for marathons, like impersonating celebrities and stuff.  Except I don't really like celebrities, as a rule, so maybe I'll have to stick to the age old question of ninja, or pirate.  I say ninja. *Hyah!*

Personal:

I am happily married to James W (Cool Runnings). We have 3 boys and 1 opinionated little girl.  I love reading and I'm also a news junkie.  I am a stinker.

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4 miles, and it was COLD this morning.  We went straight from being 70 in the morning to being 45.  This makes me worry for my dear friends in Utah.  Where did fall go?

 

I have something very special to share with you today.

 

This is Shae.  She is the best friend I've ever had.  We were inseparable as teenagers.   I called Shae a couple months before I turned 30 (freaking out about it) and left a message to tell her that I felt like I was turning into a fossil right before my own eyes.   She she responded with a message notifying me that she had registered us both for a race, Pat's Run (4.2 miles) and to start training.  So I did--1 mile 3 times a week.  (I was so awesomely prepared for my race that I was able to run sub 13:00 min. miles for the whole race--I was pretty stoked.)  2 months later I met Sasha and Sarah Pachev.

 

   This is Shae holding her very first baby, Ava, a much anticipated and precious little girl.

Ava birth was a miracle.  Doctors all said that Ava would not survive labor--her little body was not built for life in this world.

We are all so very grateful that they were mistaken.  Ava was a fighter.  She survived the birth process and lived for 15 hours.

 Thank you, Ava!  Thank you for fighting so your mother and father could hear your little voice and your hold you in this life.

I do not believe that it is the length of time we spend on the earth that changes it--it is the love we bring to it.  Ava's mission is complete.  I love you Shae.  I love you Dan.  I love you Ava.

This month I run for Ava.

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Comments
From James W on Tue, Oct 14, 2008 at 00:31:36

Even though I have already seen those pictures, your love for Shae, Dan and Ava brings me to tears. You are such a wonderful, giving person. I'm so lucky to be married to you! A worthy cause to dedicate your running to.

From Mom on Tue, Oct 14, 2008 at 10:38:48

Such a touching tribute. Such sweet pictures. Shae is one of the sweetest and purest people I know. Our love to her.

From laura on Tue, Oct 14, 2008 at 11:59:22

Oh the tears. Sweetest Shae. I have no words that fit this sad, difficult, triumphant, merciful, happy, eternally significant occasion. Thanks for sharing the pictures, Lybi. I can't stop crying. Blessed little Ava, I'm so glad she graced the world for longer than we all hoped or anticipated.

From Jody on Tue, Oct 14, 2008 at 15:29:23

Wow! Tears! Thank you! She is beautiful! More tears!

From Lybi on Tue, Oct 14, 2008 at 15:57:00

Thanks Jody! The sweetest thing is that every time I talk to Shae about it, she is so grateful and...I don't know how to describe it. It's like she has a special grace that only comes through wading through unfathomable sorrow with unquestioning faith.

From marion on Tue, Oct 14, 2008 at 16:28:29

I am so sorry Lybi.

Angel Children By Mary V Hill is a wonderful book about children who leave this life too soon. It really helped me when my brothers baby died. It is a compilation of quotes from LDS prophets.

Again, I am SO sorry and my deepest sympathies go to Shae and all who love them.

From Kristina on Tue, Oct 14, 2008 at 19:04:04

Your mom told us all about this. We are so happy that she was able to be born alive so that she can belong to her parents FOREVER. There are so many sweet miracles in this life :P Thank you for sharing this one with everyone :)

From sarah on Tue, Oct 14, 2008 at 19:10:54

Give Shae my love. Thanks for sharing their loss and their testimony. I probably shouldn't have read it because I'm in the frantic " what if something goes wrong stage" but your peace and strength gives me something to think about. Thanks Lybi!

From Lybi on Tue, Oct 14, 2008 at 19:20:07

Oh man, Sarah...I'm sorry. I almost sent you a private message NOT to look at my blog today, until I thought about it, and decided that if someone had PMed ME just to say "do NOT look at my blog today," I would DEFINITELY go check it out right away. (Haha, but true!)

But anyway, you should know that this was not a surprise. They knew this was coming from 18 weeks on. (Not that it makes it less sad.) Plus I think there is preparation from heaven when things like this happen. Your baby will be fine! And within 3 years he'll be running. He'll be amazing!

From Mik'L on Tue, Oct 14, 2008 at 19:35:32

Yeah...that was hard to look at! Look at that beautiful hair! They are much stronger than I would be!

From kungfublonde on Wed, Oct 15, 2008 at 23:37:04

Your blog made me cry. Thank you for sharing. Those 15 hours were lifetime that meant so much, and I'm sure they would rather have those hours with her than to never know her at all. Despite the sadness and loss, she was a beautiful blessing.

From walter on Wed, Oct 15, 2008 at 23:45:07

Lybi, what a great friend you are and the support you give to those who are so close to you as well as those who you barely know and welcome them in full fellowship with anything and everything possible is great! God bless you and Shae and our hearts go out to her and her precious baby.

From Shae on Thu, Oct 16, 2008 at 10:18:18

Thank you Lybi for caring about my little family and being my best friend. Thank you everyone else for acknowledging Ava's life and sharing your kind comments.

From Lyndsay Johnson on Fri, Oct 17, 2008 at 12:12:23

That is the sweetest blond curly hair I have ever seen on a newborn! I was just so happy to hear that she was born alive and they were able to hold her and see her that way for a short while.

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