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Location:

Morrison,CO,

Member Since:

Dec 01, 2010

Gender:

Female

Goal Type:

Other

Running Accomplishments:

I'm a 40+ "used to be"...

7 years ago had BAD case of frostbite and nearly lost my feet.  Stopped running (obviously) & gained LOTS of weight.  Started jogging again when local community club needed a coach and found out that exercise helped to increase circulation in my affected areas as well as decreased overall weight which helped to take pressure off my feet.  Still deal with neuropathy and Reynauds--but do not take ANY pain meds to manage the pain.  Gotta' love running!!!

SO, any past accomplishments do not matter....only that I can get ut the door almost every day and run another run.

Short-Term Running Goals:

Currently building base to lead up to traditional Marathon

Goals:

Have not yet decided on race schedule for this year, but am shifting focus from ultras to trying to nail down some shorter speedy races and a tradtional marathon.

Long-Term Running Goals:

Keep running for as long as I can & share the knowledge that God has graced me with by continuing to coach as well.

Personal:

Son:  Drew...currently runs for Adam's State!!

Currently Coaching:  Revolution Running

Day Job:  St. Joe's Veteran's Home

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Total Distance
5.00

5 miles 7:10 pace

Belmar Running Club social run

Worked on Wednesday from 7 am to 8 pm so did not eat dinner until 9p.  FINALLY went to sleep somewhere around 1 am—just could not settle in as I am dealing with some pain issues.  When my neuropathy is kicking, I have sleep disturbance, which compounds the pain issues further over the next few days…sigh…woke at 5am, as I had to be at work to meet a coworker at 6:45 am.

All of this is leading to why I ran with a social club this evening…stay with me….SO the kids are on Spring Break and are working out during the morning while I am at work, so I have not had anyone to run with at all this past week.  I opted to take 2 days off (which turned into 3 due to crazy work yesterday) to rest my feet a bit. 

Left work a bit early and went home for a nap—which was a crazy nap.  The wind has been kicking up and so my dogs have been absolutely traumatized leading them to be super needy.  One dog literally crawled into my shirt, one dog slept on my head and the third I used as a pillow.

Woke at 5pm and realized that I could just make the Running Club group run.  Since I normally coach after school, I have not yet had the pleasure to join them.  As we were gathering, without notice, a few of the guys took off and started the run.  I was caught behind a woman that had been long leashing her 2 rather large dogs that were very interested in going with me.  Every time I tried to pass, they would get really excited and try to move with me.  After politely (or maybe not) informing her that I really was trying to pass them, she gently corrected them and I had to go way out towards the street to get around them.

I spent the next half mile trying to catch up to the second to lead group.  I tried to engage in some conversation, but at the sound of a feminine voice the pace shot up dramatically as the guys clearly are not used to running with a woman.  The chase for the lead pack had begun!  AND I like challenges.  Just like with my boys, I decided that whatever pace the testosterone laden fools were going to set was the pace we were going to keep.  After a mile at 6:50 pace, the guys began to realize that they were not going to shake me…the moment comes in every run of this sort where the guys realize that I am going to keep the pace, they sigh and begin to fade off.  Right before that happens, their breathing begins to change signaling their distress or the fact that they really are at their tempo or subtempo pace.  I call that “breaking the group”.  Now that was NOT my intention in joining a social run.  Why can’t guys just run with me without it needing to turn into a (for them) a race??  SO, it becomes my social obligation to break them, literally, of this habit!

Ate up the lead pack by mile 2.5 and pushed them into the water station at the local Runners Roost store.  The lead pack guys made a quick transition and tried to leave before the group had a chance to get some water.  WELL, the chase was on once again…they did not learn the first time…suckers! 

Chased down the lead pack and this time caught them before the first half mile, but had to push 6’s to do so.  Started talking with them quite conversationally, and let them slow to 7:20.  At a lull in the conversation though, I picked back up to 7:00 to help keep them honest.  Needless to say, they fell off hard before we returned to our meeting place.  Jogged around for a bit to keep loose until the rest of the group arrived.

It really did not have to go down that way.  If they had only held their comfortable pace, I would have been happy doing 7:30’s or 8’s.  They chose to engage in running combat in an effort to ditch me, so they needed a lesson.  Went to the social snack time and giggled as some of those same guys had a hard time walking after sitting for a spell….I really would have just been fine going their pace but was not going to be relegated to sit back with the women in my “place”. Can’t wait to go back to see if they want to try this again…

Comments
From Burt on Fri, Apr 01, 2011 at 13:47:17 from 206.19.214.144

Oh my gosh Karen. Learn your role! Just kidding. You're funny.

From Scott Wesemann on Fri, Apr 01, 2011 at 18:37:20 from 66.239.250.209

Men can be funny sometimes... among other things. Ha! You are running fast and strong. Good luck with the pain issues. I hope they have cleared up for you.

From Squirrel on Sat, Apr 02, 2011 at 21:34:21 from 75.105.64.39

Yeah Karen!!! Poor boys-LOL! Hey I just have to tell you how great your advice was! After running 13.2 while eating a couple of the gel gummies and a delicious chocolate gel pack (that tastes like frosting-yum) and drinking water and gaterade I felt great! I came home and followed all of your instructions except......about 4 minutes into having my legs up my husband said we needed to leave right then to go buy a truck topper for my daughter so i changed clothes and literally jammed myself into a little s 10 with 3 of us and rode for 2 hours-i thought maybe i wouldnt be able to stand up but no problem. So thank you so much-i was a bit fearful going out this morning but i kept remembering that you said this one would be different.

Hey-good to hear from Burt!

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