If you do not have cash for a race, you can always ask somebody to pace you during their "uneventful" run. If you are up to coming to Provo in the morning some day, we can do it.
For your training - run 6 miles a day 5 times a week at 9:30 pace or slower if it feels right. For your long run (6th days), 10-12 miles at the same pace. At this point the goal is to go the maximum possible distance over the week that you can handle safely - no injuries, no overtraining. Learn to go to bed early and get up early. Bedtime curfew is a good idea. Also makes it easier to enforce it with the teenager if you are doing it yourself.
Is it normal that that pace is painfully slow to me---like I have a hard time doing it?? Do I just need to get used to it? I seriously feel like I am dragging at that pace, and talking my husband into it might be difficult (when he runs that slow at the beginning, he has a hard time finishing)! However, you are the expert, so I will try it for the rest of the week and see if I can get a feel for it. Thanks for your input, and i will be asking for much more once I get more training logged (and past these 3 races).